Going through old stuff Frits gave I found a good read on what a winner looks like
A nice list of what a Winner does, and a Loser does not. I was fortunate to meet some real winners, fun to check our conversations against the list.
Thanks Frits Frankfort, your are no longer amongst us, hope people like your material!
A Winner says “Let’s analyse it” | The Loser says “Who cares” |
When a Winner recognises a mistake he says “I made a mistake” | The Loser says “It wasn’t my fault” |
A Winner credits his luck, even though he wasn’t luck | The Loser blames his bad luck for losing, even though it wasn’t |
A Winner knows when to say “Yes” or “No” | The Loser says “Yes, but …” or “No” on the wrong moment or with the wrong reason |
A Winner is not afraid to loose. He works harder than the Looser and plans his time to do what is necessary | The Loser is afraid to loose and always too busy to do what is necessary |
A winner goes “through” the problem | The Loser goes “around” the problem, never solving it |
A Winner makes commitments, shows remorse by not making the same mistake again | The Loser makes promises, will say “Sorry” but make the same mistake again |
A Winner knows his battles and makes promises happen | The Loser makes empty promises he does not fights for |
A Winner says “I am good, but not as good as I thought I was” | The Loser says “I am not as bad a the others” |
A Winner listens | The Loser waits till he thinks it is his turn to say something |
A Winner feels strong enough to be friendly | The Loser is never friendly, he is either weaker, little or bullying |
A Winner respects his peers and wants to learn from them | The Loser let other talk and waits to find a counterargument |
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